{"id":33,"date":"2022-06-28T15:21:13","date_gmt":"2022-06-28T13:21:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/myhappypower.fr\/?page_id=33"},"modified":"2023-06-02T14:23:17","modified_gmt":"2023-06-02T12:23:17","slug":"la-carte-universelle-des-7-emotions","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/myhappypower.fr\/en\/la-carte-universelle-des-7-emotions\/","title":{"rendered":"The universal map of the 7 emotions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=\"1\u2033 _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" background_color=\"#F9F8FE \" background_enable_image=\"off \" custom_margin=\"||||false|true \" custom_padding=\"5px||0px||false|false \" border_radii=\"off|||| \" border_color_top=\"#F9F8FE \" border_color_right=\"#F9F8FE \" border_color_left=\"#F9F8FE \" locked=\"off \" collapsed=\"on \" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][et_pb_row _builder_version=\"4.19.4\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" background_enable_color=\"off \" use_background_color_gradient=\"on \" background_color_gradient_direction=\"90deg \" background_color_gradient_stops=\"#951c91 0%|rgba(48,43,148,0.91) 100% \" background_color_gradient_overlays_image=\"on \" background_color_gradient_start=\"#4b41e4\u2033 background_color_gradient_end=\"rgba(25,17,88,0.82)\" background_image=\"https:\/\/myhappypower.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/promo-1.png\" background_size=\"contain\" width=\"97%\" custom_padding=\"145px||145px||true|false\" border_radii=\"on|10px|10px|10px|10px\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][et_pb_column type=\"4_4\u2033 _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][dipi_dual_heading first_heading=\"The universal map of the 7 emotions\" heading_tag=\"h1\u2033 use_background_text=\"on\" background_text=\"Tools\" fh_padding= \"40px||20px|false|false\" fh_margin=\"|5px|0px|5px|false|true\" fh_padding_tablet=\"40px||20px|false|false\" fh_padding_phone=\"|3px||0px|false|false\" fh_padding_last_edited=\"on|phone\" _builder_version=\"4.20.0\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" first_heading_font=\"Poppins|600||on||||| \" first_heading_text_align=\"center \" first_heading_text_color=\"#FFFFFF \" first_heading_font_size=\"77px \" first_heading_line_height= \"1em \" second_heading_text_align=\"center \" second_heading_line_height=\"1em \" background_text_font=\"Poppins|600||||||| \" background_text_align=\"center \" background_text_color=\"rgba(238,238,238,0.04) \" background_text_font_size=\"270px \" background_text_line_height=\"1em \" z_index=\"0\u2033 width_tablet=\"745px \" width_phone=\"388px \" width_last_edited=\"on|tablet \" module_alignment=\"center \" custom_margin= \"||20px||false|false \" custom_margin_tablet=\"||10px||false|false \" custom_margin_phone=\"||10px||false|false \" custom_margin_last_edited=\"on|desktop \" custom_padding=\"||||false|false \" first_heading_font_size_tablet=\"55px \" first_heading_font_size_phone=\"40px \" first_heading_font_size_last_edited=\"on|phone \" background_text_font_size_tablet=\"150px \" background_text_font_size_phone=\"100px \" background_text_font_size_last_edited=\"on|tablet \" text_orientation_tablet=\"center \" text_orientation_phone=\"center \" text_orientation_last_edited=\"on|phone \" global_colors_info=\"{} \" custom_css_main_element_last_edited=\"off|phone \" custom_css_main_element_tablet=\"margin: 0px 0px 20px 0px !important;|| \" custom_css_main_element_phone= \"margin: 0px 0px 10px 0px !important;|| \" overlay_bg_color_gradient_type_tablet=\"linear \" overlay_bg_color_gradient_type_phone=\"linear \" overlay_bg_color_gradient_type__hover=\"linear \" image_bg_color_gradient_type__hover=\"linear \"][\/dipi_dual_heading][dipi_breadcrumbs bc_home_icon=\"on \" bc_home_size=\"14px \" bc_home_color=\"rgba(255,255,255,0.71) \" bc_items_alignment=\"dipi-bc-center \" bc_separator_icon=\"5||divi||400\u2033 bc_schema=\"off \" bc_separator_color=\"rgba(255,255,255,0.71) \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" items_font=\"Mulish|||||||| \" items_text_color=\"rgba(255,255,255,0.71) \" active_font=\"Mulish|||||||| \" active_text_color=\"#FFFFFF \" width_tablet=\"745px \" width_phone=\"388px \" width_last_edited=\"on|tablet \" module_alignment=\"center \" custom_padding=\"||||false|false \" module_alignment_tablet=\"center \" module_alignment_phone=\"center \" module_alignment_last_edited=\"on|phone \" custom_css_main_element=\"margin: 0px !important;||padding: 0px !important; 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I'm charged with electricity!\" (Dr Hans Selye; The Stress of Life) \" image=\"https:\/\/myhappypower.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/marketing-icon-col-15.svg \" icon_placement=\"left \" image_icon_width=\"50px \" content_max_width=\"1100px \" _builder_version=\"4.19.4\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" header_font=\"Poppins|600||||||| \" header_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 header_font_size=\"18px \" body_font=\"Mulish|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#3333\u2033 custom_padding= \"30px|20px|30px|20px|true|true\" custom_padding_tablet=\"30px|20px|30px|20px|true|true\" custom_padding_phone=\"20px|10px|20px|10px|true|true\" custom_padding_last_edited=\"on|phone\" custom_css_blurb_title=\"margin-top: 5px; \" border_radii=\"on|10px|10px|10px|10px \" border_width_all=\"1px \" border_color_all=\"rgba(153,153,153,0.13) \" box_shadow_style=\"preset1\u2033 box_shadow_color=\"RGBA(255,255,255,0) \" locked=\"off \" global_colors_info=\"{} \" box_shadow_color__hover_enabled=\"on|hover \" background_color__hover=\"#FFFFFF \" background__hover_enabled=\"on|hover \" transform_styles__hover_enabled=\"on|hover \" transform_scale__hover=\"105%|105% \" transform_scale__hover_enabled= \"on|hover \" transform_translate__hover_enabled=\"on|hover \" transform_rotate__hover_enabled=\"on|hover \" transform_skew__hover_enabled=\"on|hover \" transform_origin__hover_enabled=\"on|hover \" background_enable_color__hover=\"on \" box_shadow_color__hover=\"RGBA(255,255,255,0) \"]<\/p>\n<p>The realities and consequences of stress at all levels of connection, stimulation and tension in our tribes.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_image src= \"https:\/\/myhappypower.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/carte-des-emotions.jpg \" alt= \"La carte universelle des 7 \u00e9motions \" align= \"center \" _builder_version=\"4.20.0\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" width=\"60% \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=\"4.21.0\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" text_text_color=\"#3333\u2033 header_4_line_height=\"1.4em \" text_orientation=\"justified \" hover_enabled=\"0\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\" sticky_enabled=\"0\u2033]<strong>Lighting <span style=\"color: #ffbb00;\"><i class=\"fas fa-lightbulb\"><\/i><\/span> between \"Happy Power <span style=\"color: #008000;\"><i class=\"fas fa-plus-circle\"><\/i><\/span> \"Stress Disorder <span style=\"color: #dc143c;\"><i class=\"fas fa-minus-circle\"><\/i><\/span> \" !<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The Universal Map of the 7 Emotions is an original human experience at the heart of our vital sensoromotor energy, our psycho-corporal reactions, our emotions and our history. It is literally a journey to the centre of the emotional brain, to the heart of the memory-reaction circuits of stress, pleasure and pain.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Inspired by the work of Hans Selye, Henri Laborit and Antonio Damasio, it is a unique tool to better understand the mechanics of happiness and the roots of unhappiness, between the satisfaction of our 350 universal needs, the reaction of our 3 natural stresses, the orientation of our 7 emotions and the emotional digestion of pain in 5 steps.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">52 boxes to open to learn the 5 languages of love, the 8 emotional bugs, the 7 wounds of the heart and Karpman's Dramatic Triangle (Victim - Saviour - Persecutor).<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=\"4.21.0\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" text_text_color=\"#666666\u2033 header_4_line_height=\"1.4em \" text_orientation=\"justified \" hover_enabled=\"0\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\" sticky_enabled=\"0\u2033]<\/p>\n<p><span>To read the Universal Map of the 7 Emotions, browse the table below and don't forget to click on the \"+\" icons on the right to access the contents to be discovered.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" custom_padding=\"0px||||| \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][et_pb_column type=\"4_4\u2033 _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][et_pb_tabs active_tab_background_color=\"#951C91\u2033 active_tab_text_color=\"#ffffff \" _builder_version=\"4.21.0\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" tab_text_color=\"#302B94\u2033 body_text_color=\"#3333\u2033 tab_font=\"|700||||||| \" tab_font_size=\"15px \" tab_line_height=\"2em \" hover_enabled=\"0\u2033 border_radii= \"on|8px|8px|8px|8px\" border_color_all=\"#302B94\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\" custom_css_tabs_content_last_edited=\"off|desktop\" sticky_enabled=\"0\u2033][et_pb_tab title=\"The Power of Feeling Good\" _builder_version=\"4.21.0\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"|600||||||| \" tab_font=\"|||||||| \" hover_enabled=\"0\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" sticky_enabled=\"0\u2033]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><i class=\"fas fa-plus-circle\"><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle et_pb_module et_pb_accordion_item et_pb_accordion_item_0 et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">Sensorimotor Vital Energy<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\" style=\"display: none;\">\n<p><strong>The sensorimotor energy of the \"Stress of Life\" (Dr Hans Selye). A vital electrochemical energy made up of millions of microchemical connections and billions of microelectrical stimulations:<\/strong><br \/>1) <strong>The power to feel good<\/strong> with electrochemical stimulation of the body (tensions, sensations, etc.).<br \/>2) <strong>The power to think well<\/strong> with neuronal stimulation in the brain (neurotransmission, synaptic connections, etc.).<br \/>3) <strong>The power to act well<\/strong> with nerve stimulation in the muscles (the motor nervous system, the neuro-vegetative hormonal system, etc.).<br \/>4) <strong>The power to remember well<\/strong> with environmental stimuli in acquired life experiences (learning, contacts, links, etc.).<\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts : <\/strong>The orchestration of these 4 powers constitutes the basic unit of the experience of good functioning in satisfying our needs and managing our resources. This mnemonic-reaction orchestration takes place at several levels of connection and stimulation in our Feeling Machine. Mastering the \"Stress of Life\" is fundamentally the key to learning how to better \"recharge our batteries\" and better \"manage our energy\". Together, in the humanist light of the environmental links and biological connections that unite us.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle et_pb_module et_pb_accordion_item et_pb_accordion_item_1  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Tension &amp; D\u00e9tente 'Feeling Machine<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><strong>The mechanics of our \"Feeling Machine\": needs, shortages and resources:<\/strong><br \/>1) <strong>The signal of need :<\/strong> tension in the body, charge in intensity, alerted by sensations.<br \/>2) <strong>The tension of need :<\/strong> increased tension, risk of alarm with emotions.<br \/>3) <strong>The response to the need :<\/strong> solution to the need, adaptation to the situation, bug control (respect for limits, awareness of abuse and absence of empathy), reaction control.<br \/>4) <strong>The relaxation of satisfaction :<\/strong> relaxation in the body, relief from cravings, the well-being of satisfaction, a feeling of success and joy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts : <\/strong>350 universal human needs at several levels of organisation (the needs of the body, the heart, the mind, etc.). To satisfy our needs, we first need the power to feel well to identify them with our 5 senses; then to think well to solve them with our 7 emotions; then to react well to satisfy them with our 3 stresses and finally to remember well to gain experience with our 2 motivations.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle et_pb_module et_pb_accordion_item et_pb_accordion_item_2  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 4 Times of Feelings<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><strong>The 4 tenses of feelings<\/strong> :<br \/>1) <strong>The tension<\/strong> in the body, the impulses and impressions of the moment (the movement of stress; the excitement of the moment for example).<br \/>2) <strong>Feelings<\/strong>In this way, you can take advantage of a wide range of stimuli and perceptions in the moment (contact with the 5 senses; the pleasure of the moment, for example).<br \/>3) <strong>Emotions<\/strong>reactions to opportunities and threats in the situation (the orientation of the 7 emotions; the joy of an event, for example).<br \/>4) <strong>Feelings<\/strong>It is the interpretation over time and the emotional digestion of the story in question (awareness of the memory; the feeling of satisfaction after a successful experience, for example).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle et_pb_module et_pb_accordion_item et_pb_accordion_item_3  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">Meeting Needs<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><strong>Step-by-step satisfaction for feeling, thinking, acting and remembering<\/strong>\u00a0:<br \/>1) <strong>Observe<\/strong> the situation (perception of the environment, context and resources).<br \/>2) <strong>Feel<\/strong> your real needs (listening to your body and being aware of your needs).<br \/>3) <strong>Master<\/strong> its reaction (think about its \"Strengths - Weaknesses - Opportunities - Threats\", check its 8 emotional bugs).<br \/>4) <strong>Think<\/strong> to the different solutions for satisfying the real need (the 3 options for \"Going towards Things - Avoiding Things - Resting\" to better know what to do).<br \/>5) <strong>Act<\/strong> in practical terms and step by step, possibly incorporating time into the know-how (time for action, taking into account the improvement in skills and gains in experience through learning).<br \/>6) <strong>Enjoy<\/strong> Relief of the need and improvement of things (level of relaxation, gain in satisfaction).<br \/>7) <strong>Remembering<\/strong> experience (the right choice of solution, the value of action, awareness of improvement).<\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts<\/strong>Tension =&gt; Stimulation =&gt; Perception =&gt; Interpretation =&gt; Reaction =&gt; Satisfaction =&gt; Memory. O.S.B.D. in Non-Violent Communication to learn how to express your Observation, Feeling, Need and Request. With the pleasure &amp; reward circuit to memorise the pattern to be repeated. With the pain &amp; punishment circuit to memorise the pattern to avoid. With the insular cortex for a healthy interpretation with common sense and good taste. With the mnemonic \"Stress Disorder\" when there is a reactionary short-circuit or an emotional disorder in the system as a result of shortcomings or significant shocks.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle et_pb_module et_pb_accordion_item et_pb_accordion_item_4  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 5 Love Languages<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><strong>The 5 Love Languages to fill our Affective Reservoirs<\/strong> :<br \/>1) <strong>Responsible support<\/strong> (real attention, active help, committed benevolence).<br \/>2) <strong>Gestures of tenderness<\/strong> (warm touch, respectful hugs, hugs, cuddles).<br \/>3) <strong>The moments of sharing<\/strong> and quality (laughter, games, complicity, intimacy, authenticity).<br \/>4) <strong>Positive words<\/strong> and recognition (\"Yes\", \"Great\", \"Bravo\", \"I love you\", \"Sorry\", \"Thank you\").<br \/>5) <strong>The gifts<\/strong> and festivals (sharing, celebration, gratification, ritual, reward).<\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts<\/strong>Several typologies for transactions, signs of gratification, signs of distinction and strokes in giving and receiving stimuli (Dr Eric Berne, Dr Henri Laborit, Claude Steiner, Pierre Bourdieu, etc.). The one above is by Gary Chapman, author of several well-known books. According to Gary Chapman, there are 2 love languages preferred by each person, and it is important to identify them clearly within your relationship.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #dc143c;\"><i class=\"fas fa-minus-circle\"><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle et_pb_module et_pb_accordion_item et_pb_accordion_item_6 et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Roots of Ill-being<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><strong>The 4 stages of unhappiness :<\/strong><br \/>1) <strong>The pain of the 7 emotional wounds<\/strong> (repeated shortcomings, shocks, abuse and neglect in our tribes; the tragedy of historical emotional illiteracy in our families...).<br \/>2) <strong>Repression of emotions<\/strong> (denial of the realities of stress, freezing of stress-related tensions, inhibition of action, justification to forget the pain).<br \/>3) <strong>The psycho-corporal closure of the person<\/strong> (pain blocking, memory freezing, emotional defence, social masking).<br \/>4) <strong>Stress-related mnemonic disorders<\/strong> (emotional bugs, abusive compulsions, toxic ruminations, destructive impulses, somatic inflammations).<\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts :<\/strong> Dr Henri Laborit in 1979 for the discovery of the impact of inhibiting action and repressing emotions (Albert Lasker Prize, WHO Medal). The American Psychiatric Association in 1980 for the mnemonic \"Stress Disorder\" following shock, lack and abuse (P.T.S.D). <strong>Happy Power =<\/strong> Feel well with the 5 senses + Think well with the 7 emotions + Act well with the 3 stresses + Remember well with the 2 motivations. <strong>Stress Disorder =<\/strong> Dissociation of the 5 senses + Misinterpretation of the 7 emotions + \"Passive-aggressive-abusive\" compulsion of the 3 stresses + Denial of the 2 motivations (a certain disregard for pleasure and pain).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle et_pb_module et_pb_accordion_item et_pb_accordion_item_7 et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 7 Wounds of the Heart<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\" style=\"display: none;\">\n<p><b>The 7 Wounds of the Heart in relation to the pain of lack:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Respiratory stress at birth<\/b><span>\u00a0(lack of oxygen, cord, forceps, caesarean section...).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Affective attachment stress<\/b><span>\u00a0(lack of oxytocin, early separation, breastfeeding, coldness...).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Shock and violence stress<\/b><span>\u00a0(E.S.P.T, shouting, aggression, slapping, hands and feet, accidents,...).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stress of abuse and humiliation<\/b><span>\u00a0(disgust of the insula, abuse of power, manipulation, seduction, sexual abuse,...).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stress of neglect and failure<\/b><span>\u00a0(emotional abandonment, disorder, letting go, depression, dramatisation...).<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stress of over-adaptation and social conditioning<\/b><span>\u00a0(limiting beliefs, cognitive biases, toxic patterns...).<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stress of ignorance and emotional illiteracy<\/b><span>\u00a0(denial of science, contempt for knowledge, refusal to understand...).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle et_pb_module et_pb_accordion_item et_pb_accordion_item_8 et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Cycle <b>\"Oh, M.A.M.A, Mia!\" from the <\/b>Lack and Abuse<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The cycle of destructiveness and toxicity with the rebound effect of \"Lack - Abuse - Contempt - Abandonment\":<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Missing<\/b><span> painful for natural needs and normal limits (emotional illiteracy, lack of hope for healthy satisfaction, disregard for stress in our families, denial of the pain in our hearts, toxic pleasure in abuse, 'mockery' of Happy Power...).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Abuse<\/b><span> compensatory with toxic pleasure and abusive power to stifle pain (\"stress disorder\" with greed, vanity, cupidity, seduction, impulse, compulsive consumption and lies about satisfying needs, etc.).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Contempt<\/b><span>\u00a0the realities of the heart and the social consequences (disgust, rejection, saturation, hatred, disgust...).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Moral abandonment<\/b><span>\u00a0of the mind (lack of shame, destructiveness, toxicity, \"I don't give a fuck\"...).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle et_pb_module et_pb_accordion_item et_pb_accordion_item_9 et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Emotional Freeze<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The freezing of emotions and the impact of pain :<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Dissociation of emotions \/ inflammation<\/b><span>\u00a0around pain (anaesthesia, cleavage, somatisation).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Rumination of emotions \/ procrastination<\/b><span>\u00a0around pain (anguish, helplessness, rage, despair, depression).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Reversal of emotions \/ dramatisation<\/b><span>\u00a0around pain (shame, guilt, sabotage, isolation, lack, abuse, perversion).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Abandonment of emotions\/agitation<\/b><span>\u00a0around pain (complacency, disregard, rejection, saturation, excess, burn-out, mania).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Obsession with emotions \/ compulsion<\/b><span>\u00a0around pain (emotional dependence, sexual drive, food stress, addiction, seduction, abuse of power).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle et_pb_module et_pb_accordion_item et_pb_accordion_item_10 et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Typology of Injuries<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The typology of wounds, otherwise translatable into pain of lack :<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Severe shock<\/b><span>\u00a0or traumatic at once (accident, shock, physical shock, sexual abuse...).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Painful stimuli<\/b><span>\u00a0with repetition (humiliation, harassment, abuse of power, brainwashing...).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Sudden break-up<\/b><span>\u00a0of contact at once (abandonment, bereavement, disappearance, betrayal, \"radio silence\" in the link...).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Lack of contact<\/b><span>\u00a0with repetition (neglect, deficiency, emotional \"hot-cold\", emotional \"yo-yo\",...).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Toxic saturation<\/b><span>\u00a0pleasure in one go (shocking excitement, body disgust, pathological \"ignition\"...).<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Untimely abuse<\/b><span>\u00a0pleasure with repetition (abusive intrusion, toxic mothering, poisonous practice, early discovery...).<\/span><br \/><b>N.B &amp; Experts :<\/b> Socially, \"It's for your own good, don't say anything\" remains the main toxic justification or abusive excuse for denying stress. Scientifically, the main passive illusion or sick response to the denial of pain is to \"forget it, it's in the past\". We are asked to close our eyes to the scientific realities of stress (Dr Henri LABORIT; Dr Susan FORWARD). We are asked to forget the psychosocial consequences of pain (Dr Marshall ROSENBERG; Alice MILLER).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffbb00;\"><i class=\"fas fa-lightbulb\"><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle et_pb_module et_pb_accordion_item et_pb_accordion_item_10 et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 4 Brains of the Body<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\" style=\"display: none;\">\n<p><b>The 4 Human Brains:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Neurons in the head<\/b><span>\u00a0(with 2 hemispheres to organise our Movement in Space - Time).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Neurons in the belly<\/b><span>\u00a0(with the emotionally sensitive gut microbiota).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Neurons in the skin<\/b><span>\u00a0(with the fascias under tension with the pain).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Neurons in the heart<\/b><span>\u00a0(with 40,000 neurons, it seems...).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle et_pb_module et_pb_accordion_item et_pb_accordion_item_11 et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Time-Spaces of Satisfaction in Decision-Making<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\" style=\"display: none;\">\n<p><b>Information processing by the human brain in Space - Time :<\/b><br \/><span>1) The treatment of\u00a0<\/span><b>Place of things<\/b><span>\u00a0(perception in its connections, attachment, links and horizontal organisation).<\/span><br \/><span>2) The treatment of\u00a0<\/span><b>Time of things<\/b><span>\u00a0(differentiation in its individuation, maturation, separations and vertical organisation)<\/span><br \/><span>3) The treatment of\u00a0<\/span><b>Movement of things<\/b><span>\u00a0(the direction of contact in its development, progress and evolution).<\/span><br \/><span>4) The treatment of\u00a0<\/span><b>Value of Things<\/b><span>\u00a0(integration into its experience, understanding and appreciation).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle et_pb_module et_pb_accordion_item et_pb_accordion_item_12 et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Brain in Pieces<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\" style=\"display: none;\">\n<p><b>The brain in 15 pieces to get the gist:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stress<\/b><span>\u00a0(the electrical nerve voltage + or - illuminating, in binary mode On \/ Off \/ Light).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>The reptilian<\/b><span>\u00a0(the body animal starter + or - reactive).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>The limbic<\/b><span>\u00a0(the emotional steering + or - automatic depending on the integrated experience).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>The cortex<\/b><span>\u00a0(the decision centre + or - reflected according to the levels of human integration).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>The neurovegetative nervous system<\/b><span>\u00a0(the machine to act by tension \/ relaxation).<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>The amygdala of the brain<\/b><span>\u00a0(the reactionary whistleblower, the immediate fear centre).<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>The nucleus accumbens<\/b><span>\u00a0(the centre of immediate pleasure).<\/span><br \/><span>8)\u00a0<\/span><b>The MFB<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Ventral tegmental area \/ Ventral pallidum (the reward circuit).<\/span><br \/><span>9)\u00a0<\/span><b>The PVS<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Hypothalamus \/ thalamus \/ ventral pallidum (the punishment circuit).<\/span><br \/><span>10)\u00a0<\/span><b>The hippocampus<\/b><span>\u00a0(the memory of the experience + or - resource).<\/span><br \/><span>11)\u00a0<\/span><b>The cingulate cortex<\/b><span>\u00a0(the perception of the emotion for the solution).<\/span><br \/><span>12)\u00a0<\/span><b>The insular cortex<\/b><span>\u00a0(the tasteful direction for the solution).<\/span><br \/><span>13)\u00a0<\/span><b>The prefrontal cortex<\/b><span>\u00a0(the common sense interpretation for the solution).<\/span><br \/><span>14)\u00a0<\/span><b>The C.O.F.<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The orbitofrontal cortex (the concentration over time for the solution).<\/span><br \/><span>15)\u00a0<\/span><b>P.T.S.D<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Stress Disorder (the memory-reaction disorder due to inhibition of action).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_tab][et_pb_tab title=\"The Power of Thinking Well\" _builder_version=\"4.21.0\u2033 _module_preset=\"default\" hover_enabled=\"0\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\" sticky_enabled=\"0\u2033]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><i class=\"fas fa-plus-circle\"><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_0 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Happiness Strategy<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The strategy of happiness (or S.W.O.T of the Heart)<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Going for the healthy opportunities<\/b><span>\u00a0(realistic situation, responsible person, fulfilling environment ...).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Avoiding toxic threats<\/b><span>\u00a0(abusive person, false relationship, poisonous situation, endangerment...).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Developing resources, capacities or strengths<\/b><span>\u00a0(positive experience, brain expertise, body energy, resources of money, information, technology, friends...).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Limiting shortcomings, false beliefs or weaknesses<\/b><span>\u00a0(cultivating health, contact, abilities, talents, value creation, signs of distinction...).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_1 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 3 Stress Reactions<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The 3 natural stress strategies (or the 3 universal movements at the basis of all our reactions):<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Go to contact<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Movement towards the positive, reward or pleasure (<\/span><i>Move Towards Connection<\/i><span>).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Avoiding contact<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Movement to avoid negativity, punishment or pain (<\/span><i>Move Away From Connection<\/i><span>).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Switching off<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Strategic rest or downtime to gain strength, energy, sleep or resources (<\/span><i>Switch Off Connection<\/i><span>).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_2 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 7 Emotions Orientation<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>Emotions are reactions of orientation, adaptation and digestion in response to threats, opportunities and changes (danger, poison, loss, encounter, grief...). In what situation is your emotion normal and natural?<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Love<\/b><span>\u00a0is a normal and natural emotion when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>privacy<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>authenticity<\/b><span>\u00a0(orientation in the fruitfulness of the link).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Anger<\/b><span>\u00a0is normal and natural when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>injustice<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>lack<\/b><span>\u00a0(orientation in the satisfaction of needs).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Disgust<\/b><span>\u00a0is normal and natural when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>saturation<\/b><span>,\u00a0<\/span><b>toxicity<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>abuse<\/b><span>\u00a0(guidance in the prevention of poisoning).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Shame<\/b><span>\u00a0is normal and natural when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>inhumanity<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>abnormality<\/b><span>\u00a0(guidance in social integration).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>The joy<\/b><span>\u00a0is normal and natural when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>share<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>success<\/b><span>\u00a0(orientation in self-realisation within a filial framework).<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Fear<\/b><span>\u00a0is normal and natural when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>danger<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>unknown<\/b><span>\u00a0(risk management orientation).<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Sadness<\/b><span>\u00a0is normal and natural when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>loss<\/b><span>,\u00a0<\/span><b>separation<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>end<\/b><span>\u00a0(orientation in the subsidiary transition).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_3 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Right Choice Experience<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>7 key questions to help you reflect on your interpretations or challenges:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is it realistic to continue like this?<span>\u00a0<\/span><\/b><span>\/ Principle of factual reality.<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is it right to continue like this?<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Principle of sobriety for the body.<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is it right to continue like this?<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Principle of integrity for the mind.<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is it right to continue like this?<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Principle of dignity for the heart.<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is there any point in continuing this?<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Principle of price to pay, interest and profit in Time (sense of history).<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is it fair to continue like this?<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Principle of law and order in Space (sense of place).<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is it a shame to continue like this?<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Principle of value and meaning in the Movement (meaning of action).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_4 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Keys to Normal Emotion<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>Is an emotion normal and natural? Or is it an emotional bug?<\/b><br \/><span>1) Emotion is a reaction adapted to the situation \/\u00a0<\/span><b>Normality in context.<\/b><br \/><span>2) The emotion has a normal intensity in the situation \/\u00a0<\/span><b>Proportionality in context.<\/b><br \/><span>3) Emotion is a source of empathy in the situation \/\u00a0<\/span><b>Understanding in context.<\/b><br \/><span>4) Emotion does not ruminate in the situation \/\u00a0<\/span><b>Orientation in context.<\/b><br \/><span>5) Emotion is in the respect of the people in the situation \/\u00a0<\/span><b>Integrity in context.<\/b><br \/><span>6) Emotion is a source of relaxation and satisfaction in the situation \/\u00a0<\/span><b>Relief in context.<\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #dc143c;\"><i class=\"fas fa-minus-circle\"><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_5 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 8 Emotional Bugs<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The 8 emotional bugs, 8 parasitic or abnormal reactions:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Disproportionate emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(abnormal intensity with \"elastic\" in memory).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Inappropriate emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(\"switch\" or emotional error, substitution for lack of permission).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Accumulated emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(self-closure, passivity and stamp collecting).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Irrational emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(emotional control with rebound effect, panic or mania).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Contagious emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(SpongeBob, emotion of others due to lack of boundaries or limits).<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Transferred emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(family secrets, hot potatoes, silence in the family system).<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Projected emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(desire or blame placed on others, role reversal, reversal of situation).<\/span><br \/><span>8)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stifled emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(lack of emotion, wise appearance, logical coldness, slow seduction).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_6 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">Misinterpretations<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>Interpretation errors, cognitive biases.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>A \/ The absence of consciousness in the repression of emotions:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The absence of emotion,<\/b><span>\u00a0affective anaesthesia, sensory freezing (the cingulate).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>The lack of response,<\/b><span>\u00a0Sick passivity, behavioural freezing (neurovegetative).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Lack of empathy,<\/b><span>\u00a0abuse of power, moral coldness (the islander).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>B \/ Interpretation errors in the repression of emotions:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The mystification of pleasure<\/b><span>\u00a0(compulsion, addiction, seduction, obsession, illusion...).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Victimisation in pain<\/b><span>\u00a0(rumination, procrastination, depression, pity manipulation...).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Guilt in pain<\/b><span>\u00a0(criticism, denigration, harassment, humiliation, etc.).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_7 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Dramatisation of Solutions<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The stages of violence, the dramatisation of solutions, the powerlessness in the face of problems:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Denial<\/b><span>\u00a0of the problem (or pain).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Minimisation<\/b><span>\u00a0of the problem (or pain).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stupid solutions<\/b><span>\u00a0to the problem (or pain).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Nervous restlessness<\/b><span>\u00a0around the problem (or pain).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Acting out in violence<\/b><span>\u00a0to get out of the problem (or pain) at all costs.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_8 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Spiral of Beliefs<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The spiral loop of negative beliefs :<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Toxic beliefs due to misinterpretation of parasitic stress<\/b><span>In the case of a situation of failure or stifled pain (problems of self-esteem, confidence, lack of success or sharing, over-adaptation, etc.).<\/span><br \/><span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Example:<\/span> \"I am ashamed of myself, others don't like me, I am ugly.<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Limiting behaviours due to emotional bugs<\/b><span>\u00a0(excessive fear, parasitic shame, abusive guilt, explosive anger, passive sadness...).<\/span><br \/><span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Example:<\/span> \"I isolate myself, I avoid intimate contact, I'm afraid of the gaze of others.<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Predictable consequences due to the power of emotions and emotional illiteracy<\/b><span>\u00a0(intensity of bugs, social withdrawal, emotional isolation, emotional abandonment, relational sabotage...).<\/span><br \/><span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Example:<\/span> \"Other people don't come to me in the evening. I don't smile, I don't joke.\"<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Self-reinforcing confirmation of the toxic belief with repetition pattern<\/b><span>\u00a0parasitic stress and failures (guilt, shame, humiliation, resignation, depression, despair, rage, hatred...).<\/span><br \/><span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Example:<\/span> \"The others don't like me, I'm not a good person. I've come full circle!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_9 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">Toxic Rehearsals<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>Toxic repetition, ineffective solutions:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Misunderstandings<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition of denial of realities, contempt, lies, illusions, passivity...).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Parasite feelings<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition of emotional bugs, memory-reaction \"Stress Disorder\"...).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>False beliefs<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition of false interpretations, cognitive biases, toxic illusions...).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Toxic patterns<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition of poisonous behaviour, power games, sabotage and failure, self-destruction...).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Repetition compulsion<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition in addiction, consumption, abuse, disgust, saturation ...).<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Life scenarios<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition of over-adaptations, sacrifices, sickly loyalties, toxic pities, abusive gratitudes...).<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Cognitive patterns<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition of learning, experiences, emotional illiteracy...).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffbb00;\"><i class=\"fas fa-lightbulb\"><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_10 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">Learning about Emotions<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>Both innate and acquired learning of emotions:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Basic autopilot<\/b><span> with a universal brain structure (3 movements by stress, 7 orientations by emotion).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Environmental and sensory stimulation for our bodies<\/b><span>\u00a0to make our own experience of pleasure or pain.<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>A socio-parental transmission by our authority figures<\/b><span>\u00a0to alert us to a threat or opportunity (verbal and non-verbal triggering).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Experiences in life<\/b><span>\u00a0to discern between healthy and toxic situations, between real threats and false opportunities.<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Bugs in our interpretations, errors in our triggers<\/b><span>\u00a0emotional, false beliefs, memory-reaction disorder.<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>An improvement process<\/b><span>This is a time for questioning and new experiences (brain neuroplasticity, emotional literacy).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_11 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 4 Levels of Consciousness<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The 4 levels of consciousness:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Perceptual position 1<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The perception of needs for oneself.<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>P.P 2<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The perception of needs for the other.<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>P.P 3<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The perception of needs in the specific situation.<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>P.P 4<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The perception of universal needs on Earth.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_12 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Vital Function of Emotions<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The vital function of the 7 emotions (automatic steering of opportunities and threats):<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Love<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Optimising contact, exchange and reproduction.<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Anger<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Prevention of lack, imbalance or abuse of power.<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Disgust<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Prevention against poison, abuse or saturation.<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Shame<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Prevention against social exclusion, human desolation or inhumanity.<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>The joy<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The optimisation of self-fulfilment, individual success and social sharing.<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Fear<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Prevention against risk, danger or the unknown.<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Sadness<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Optimising change, grief, loss and transition.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_tab][et_pb_tab title=\"The Power to Act Well\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><i class=\"fas fa-plus-circle\"><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_13 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 5 Levels of Trust<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The 5 Levels of Trust:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Being able to feel good about yourself<\/b><span>\u00a0(inner serenity, basic physical safety, body experience, sports practice).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Be able to rely on your thinking skills<\/b><span> (confidence in one's point of view, power of thought, intellectual experience)<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Being able to rely on its know-how<\/b><span> (the ability to cope, knowing how to get by, experience of the 'D' system).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Being able to rely on others <\/b><span>\u00a0(communication skills, interpersonal confidence, experience of groups and teams).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Being able to rely on Life <\/b><span>\u00a0(spiritual trust, a taste for Nature, a sense of the Environment, the hope of the Force in Star Wars).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts : <\/strong>Confidence is essentially 'knowing you can rely on' something or someone. In French, the word confiance is a catch-all word or a catch-all word. In English, the words 'confidence', 'wellness', 'trust', 'self-esteem', 'hope' and 'experience' cover the different levels of organisation of the French word 'confiance'.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_14 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Recipe for Happiness<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The Recipe for Happiness:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The right sense of fun<\/b><span>\u00a0(well-being, joy, love, attachment...).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>A sense of action<\/b><span>\u00a0(movement, project, activity, work, commitment...).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>A sense of value<\/b><span>\u00a0(place of things, sense of the sacred, talents, creativity...).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>The right sense of time<\/b><span>\u00a0(courage to act, prudence, patience, childhood memory,...).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>The common sense of power<\/b><span>\u00a0(role of parents, sense of authority, choice of truth, taste for justice...).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_15 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Golden Transformation<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The Transformation into Gold (E=MC2).<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Listening<\/b> of its energy.<br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Concentration<\/b> of its energy.<br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Management<\/b> of its energy.<br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Transmission<\/b> of its energy.<br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Expansion<\/b> of its energy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts :<\/strong> \"E=MC2! It's heavy, it goes fast!\" Energy is mathematically related to mass and the speed of light. The weight of our pain and the light of our values to give poetic meaning to the process of emotional transformation in personal development. C.G. Jung enlightened us on this process by reminding us that emotion is the fire of transformation.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_16 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">Fair Play from the Heart<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>Fair Play from the Heart <span>in reciprocity, lucidity, courage and justice <\/span>:<\/b><br \/><span>1) Fair play on the\u00a0<\/span><b>sexuality<\/b><span>.<\/span><br \/><span>2) Fair play on\u00a0<\/span><b>money<\/b><span>.<\/span><br \/><span>3) Fair play on the\u00a0<\/span><b>violence<\/b><span>.<\/span><br \/><span>4) Fair play on the\u00a0<\/span><b>time<\/b><span>.<\/span><br \/><span>5) Fair play on\u00a0<\/span><b>the living space<\/b><span>.<\/span><br \/><span>6) Fair play on the\u00a0<\/span><b>role of each<\/b><span>.<\/span><br \/><span>7) Fair play on the\u00a0<\/span><b>stress<\/b><span>.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_17 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Verbs of Giving - Receiving<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The verbs of Giving &amp; Receiving to fill your Affective Body Reservoir :<\/b><br \/><span>1) See - Feel - Wait - Judge (<strong>interpersonal recognition in perception and observations<\/strong>).<\/span><br \/><span>2) Accept - Refuse - Abstain (<strong>interpersonal recognition in differentiation and boundaries<\/strong>).<\/span><br \/><span>3) Receive - Give - Share (<strong>interpersonal recognition in transactions and exchanges<\/strong>).<\/span><br \/><span>4) Listen - Ask - Speak (<strong>interpersonal recognition in communication and speech<\/strong>).<\/span><br \/><span>5) Learn - Reflect - Dare - Act (<strong>interpersonal recognition in experience and culture<\/strong>).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #dc143c;\"><i class=\"fas fa-minus-circle\"><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_18 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">Toxic Patterns<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The messages of over-adaptation to stress in childhood (the \"Drivers\" of the \"Patterns\"):<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Be strong<\/b><span>Don't say anything!<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Please<\/b><span>be nice!<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Be perfect<\/b><span>Be good!<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Keep it clean<\/b><span>Be pure!<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Make an effort<\/b><span>Don't think about yourself!<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Hurry up<\/b><span>Don't take the time!<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Be in disgust<\/b><span>I don't give a shit anymore!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_19 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">Violence or the Failure of Satisfaction<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The 4 feelings of violence or failure of happiness :<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The feeling of powerlessness<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ We don't know what to do!<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>The feeling of incomprehension<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ We don't understand anything anymore!<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>The feeling of deadlock<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ We don't know how to get out of it anymore!<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>The feeling of destructive legitimacy<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Nothing more to do, we enjoy it, we let go in this great \"Stress Disorder\"!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_20 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">Power Games &amp; Dramatic Triangle<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>Toxic power plays with stress in our relationships, linked to our helplessness in the face of emotional pain:<\/b><br \/>1) <b>The dominance of the Persecutor<\/b> (abuse of power and direct control of people through pain, force, violence, over-stress, contempt, manipulation...).<br \/>2) <b>The mystification of the Saviour<\/b> (abuse of power and indirect control of people through pleasure, seduction, adoration, mothering, illusion, mystification...).<br \/>3) <b>Victimisation of the Victim<\/b> (abuse of power and indirect control of people through pity, sacrifice, guilt, shame, care, humiliation...).<\/p>\n<p><b>N.B &amp; Experts :<\/b> Dr. Stephen KARPMAN's Dramatic Triangle is a bad power play between Persecutor, Saviour and Victim. It is a psychological game of abuse of power in relationships and powerlessness in dealing responsibly with the realities of stress.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_21 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 3 Actors of the Dramatic Triangle<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>Dr. Stephen KARPMAN's Dramatic Triangle Actors (process of relational dramatization with denial of the reality of the facts):<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Persecutor has the mask of evil using pain<\/b> of his history. He has learned to do (some) bad things to get out of it (strategy of over-adaptation by attacking people and disregarding his own history; FIGHT in English).<br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Saviour has the mask of goodness in avoiding pain<\/b> of his history. He has learned to do (some) good to get by (strategy of over-adaptation by helping people and disregarding his own history; FLY in English).<br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Victim has the mask of the Poor while brooding over the pain<\/b> of his history. He has learned to do (some) pain to get out of it (strategy of over-adaptation by pitying people and disregarding his own history; FREEZE in English).<\/p>\n<p><b>N.B &amp; Experts :<\/b> The 3 social masks Persecutor - Rescuer - Victim of Dr Stephen KARPMAN's Triangle correspond to the 3 stress strategies Attack - Flight - Freeze in their dysfunctional form. It is an irresponsible, passive and abusive relational game with pain, pleasure and action to mask the realities of stress in our own history.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_22 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 5 Issues of the Dramatic Triangle<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<div class=\"accordion__content\">\n<p><b>The Issues of the Dramatic Triangle. The \"5 Rs\" to understand what we are playing with in our poisonous relationships:<\/b><br \/>1) The<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>R<\/b>The facts of the matter are clear.<br \/>2) The<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>R<\/b>The responsibility of individuals.<br \/>3) The<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>R<\/b>s role.<br \/>4) The<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>R<\/b>s response to the problem.<br \/>5) The<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>R<\/b>s response to traumatic memory.<\/p>\n<p><b>N.B &amp; Experts :<\/b> Dr. Stephen KARPMAN's Dramatic Triangle is a bad power play between Persecutor, Saviour and Victim. It is a game of abuse of power in relationships, powerlessness in meeting needs and contempt in dealing with stress.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffbb00;\"><i class=\"fas fa-lightbulb\"><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_23 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">Animal, Child, Adult and Parent Inner<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The levels of organisation of the brain (in a simplified way):<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Inner Animal<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The sense of action and the body's sensations \/ \"Wake up the Tiger!<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Inner Child<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The sense of need and emotions of the heart \/ \"Listen to the Child!<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Inner Adult<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The sense of reality and responsibility of reason \/ \"Make the Adult work!<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Inner Parent<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The meaning of solutions and values of consciousness \/ \"Educate the Parent!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts : <\/strong><span>\u00a0The neurovegetative, reptilian, limbic, anterior, frontal and insular cortexes for the experts!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_24 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">Electrical Power &amp; Descartes Errors<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>Past mistakes around Life Energy and Power.<\/b><br \/><span>1) The Logical Power of Reason \/ The Error of Descartes.<\/span><br \/><span>2) The erotic power of the impulse \/ Freud's mistake.<\/span><br \/><span>3) The philosophical power of power \/ Nietzsche's mistake.<\/span><br \/><span>4) The political power of disgust \/ Hitler's mistake.<\/span><br \/><span>5) The mystical power of the universe and of love \/ The error of Jung &amp; Reich.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"type--fine-print\"><span><\/span><strong>N.B &amp; Experts : <\/strong>It is in fact a story of electrochemical stimulation to be able to acquire the experience of feeling good, thinking good, acting good, remembering good in order to be able to \"feel good about oneself\" within the framework of the organisation of the satisfaction of one's needs and the maintenance of one's life structure (Dr Henri LABORIT). At the same time, this story of stimulation is also called the nervous tension of stress, and it is quickly a sensitive subject of tension, power and dominance in the groups to which we belong, if we start to connect the threads of memory around the issues of stress (The Stress of Life, Dr Hans SELYE).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_25 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Big Pieces of the Puzzle<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The pieces of the puzzle of a scientifically binary electrochemical system... (Light \/ No Light; Contact \/ No Contact; Truth \/ No Truth):<\/b><br \/><span>1) <strong>1 basic nervous energy charge<\/strong> in tension \/ relaxation mode of the body to be able to act (21 g of nervous tension, electrochemical Flow, neurovegetative Chi?). <\/span><br \/><span>2) <strong>2 options for recharging the battery<\/strong> energy, or feed the Body Affective Reservoir (Switch On \/ Switch Off, Awake Active \/ Resting Sleeping, Contact On \/ Off Contact ?). <\/span><br \/><span>3) <strong>3 basic options for managing movements<\/strong> Reaction strategies (Move Towards Contact, Move Away From Contact, Switch Off Contact).<\/span><br \/><span>4) <strong>7 basic guidelines for managing opportunities and threats<\/strong> (7 emotions to initially deal with threats of danger, poison, exclusion...or opportunities for reproduction, transition, sharing, success...).<\/span><br \/><span>5) <strong>1 circuit Pleasure \/ Pain \/ Basic taste<\/strong> to be able to assess the positive and healthy value of the experience (the reward, pain and common sense circuits to be able to sense how positive, healthy and fruitful the experience is). <\/span><br \/>6) <strong>1 interpretive tour<\/strong> The associative cortex is the basic cortex for sorting, discerning, interpreting, evaluating and improving experience (the associative cortex in connection with both empathic emotional knowledge and general humanistic culture).<br \/>7) <strong>1 memorial circuit<\/strong> The hippocampus has a key role to play both in the memory of our feelings and in the memory of our life experiences.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts : <\/strong>For the experts, mainly in the brain, the amygdala, the hippocampus, the cingulate cortex, the insular cortex, the C.O.F., the neurovegetative, the reptilian and limbic levels of organisation. The work of George Boole, Dr Duncan MacDougall, Dr Fritz Perls, Dr Joseph Ledoux, Dr Antonio Damasio, Dr Gerhard Roth, Dr Erik Kandel and Dr Henri Laborit. Not forgetting Jimi Hendrix's \"Are You Experienced?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_tab][et_pb_tab title=\"The Power of Remembering Well\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><i class=\"fas fa-plus-circle\"><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_26 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Dimensions of the Heart<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The Dimensions of the Heart:<\/b><br \/><span>1) The meaning of\u00a0<\/span><b>reality<\/b><span>\u00a0of the facts.<\/span><br \/><span>2) The meaning of\u00a0<\/span><b>the story<\/b><span>\u00a0personal.<\/span><br \/><span>3) The meaning of\u00a0<\/span><b>sobriety<\/b><span>\u00a0body.<\/span><br \/><span>4) The meaning of\u00a0<\/span><b>integrity<\/b><span>\u00a0mental.<\/span><br \/><span>5) The meaning of\u00a0<\/span><b>dignity<\/b><span>\u00a0human.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_27 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 5 Steps to Emotional Digestion<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The 5 stages of the emotional digestion of pain:<\/b><br \/><span>1) The awareness of <strong>pain<\/strong> (the click of the end of denial).<\/span><br \/><span>2) <strong>Anger<\/strong> healthy to say no to pain, to free oneself from suffering.<\/span><br \/><span>3) <strong>Fear<\/strong> of change, fear of the future.<\/span><br \/><span>4) <strong>Sadness<\/strong> to get rid of the pain, to be able to say \"Yes, it's over!<\/span><br \/><span>5) <strong>Acceptance<\/strong> that the welcome of renewal is over.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"type--fine-print\"><strong>N.B &amp; Experts : <\/strong><span>Based in part on the \"5 Stages of Grief\" for experts (Dr. K\u00fcbler-Ross). The main obstacles to emotional digestion are complete denial, paralysing guilt, toxic shame, freezing terror, manipulative pity, abusive seduction and destructive rage (mad rage or \"seum\", the angry venom of disgust in Arabic).<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_28 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">Emotional Intelligence<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The development of emotional intelligence (in the management of our stress, our needs, our emotions and our relationships):<\/b><br \/><span>1) Sensory anaesthesia.<\/span><br \/><span>2) Sensory perception.<\/span><br \/><span>3) Emotional interference.<\/span><br \/><span>4) Individual management.<\/span><br \/><span>5) Emotional interaction.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_29 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Transmission of the Word<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p class=\"lead\"><b>The Transmission of the Word:<\/b><br \/><span>1) Genuine commitment to humanist values.<\/span><br \/><span>2) Genuine commitment to our children.<\/span><br \/><span>3) Real change for our families.<\/span><br \/><span>4) Genuine recognition of stress.<\/span><br \/><span>5) The true acceptance of memory.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_30 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 5 Languages of Forgiveness<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The 5 Languages of Forgiveness:<\/b><br \/><span>1) Really acknowledge the fault.<\/span><br \/><span>2) Expressing real regret.<\/span><br \/><span>3) Really want to change.<\/span><br \/><span>4) Really propose a repair.<\/span><br \/><span>5) Really ask for forgiveness.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #dc143c;\"><i class=\"fas fa-minus-circle\"><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_31 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Commandments of the Law of Silence<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The Commandments of the Law of Silence :<\/b><br \/><span>1) Denial of pain, one is asked to keep quiet.<\/span><br \/><span>2) The pie in the sky, we are asked to have a great childhood.<\/span><br \/><span>3) The disregard of memory, one is asked to forget.<\/span><br \/><span>4) The prohibition of anger, we are asked to forgive.<\/span><br \/><span>5) Emotional illiteracy, we are asked to remain powerless with our emotions.<\/span><br \/><span>6) The social mask, we are asked to be good, kind, beautiful and smiling.<\/span><br \/><span>7) Toxic guilt, we are asked to believe \"It's my fault!<\/span><br \/><span>8) The good logical excuse, we are asked to believe \"It's for your own good\".<\/span><br \/><span>9) The good economic excuse, we are asked to believe \"It's all about money\".<\/span><br \/><span>10) Shame if you talk about it, you are asked to hide.<\/span><br \/><span>11) Mercy and kindness of heart, one is asked to sacrifice.<\/span><br \/><span>12) Punishment if you talk about it, you are asked to have the double punishment.<\/span><br \/><span>13) Passive magical thinking, we are asked to believe \"If I don't say anything, there's nothing left, everything is fine!<\/span><br \/><span>14) Toxic loyalty, one is asked to remain loyal to sick, passive and abusive people.<\/span><br \/><span>15) Brainwashing, we are asked to believe in Snow White and Father Christmas.<\/span><br \/><span>16) The power of taboos, we are asked to avoid the roots of evil, My Child!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_32 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Consents of the Word<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The 4 Consents of the Man of the Word:<\/b><br \/><span>1) The pain of his past.<\/span><br \/><span>2) The reality of its present.<\/span><br \/><span>3) The energy of its future.<\/span><br \/><span>4) The truth of its history.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_33 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 8 Locks of the Body<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The pain points where stress tensions freeze:<\/b><br \/>1) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>the eyes.<\/b><br \/>2) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>the jaws.<\/b><br \/>3) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>the neck.<\/b><br \/>4) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>chest - shoulders.<\/b><br \/>5) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>the diaphragm.<\/b><br \/>6) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>stomach - digestive system.<\/b><br \/>7) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>pelvis - anus - sex.<\/b><br \/>8) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>legs - knees - feet<\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_34 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Dragons of Emotion<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>Emotional dragons in their mismanagement (emotional bugs, parasitic pain):<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Compulsion abuse<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ addiction \/ obsession.<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Abuse of seduction<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ illusion \/ vanity \/ manipulation.<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Abuse of agitation<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ rumination \/ impulse \/ drive.<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Abuse of victimisation<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ rumination \/ procrastination \/ humiliation.<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Abuse of violence<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ acting out \/ destructive rage.<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Shame abuse<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ contempt \/ lies \/ rejection \/ pride.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts : <\/strong>Stress with Memory Reaction Disorder \/ Lack, shock, pain, abuse, saturation, rejection, disgust, hatred, rage...(Stress Disorder, P.T.S.D).<\/p>\n<p class=\"lead\">\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_35 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The 7 Dimensions of Abuse<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The 7 dimensions of abuse:<\/b><br \/><span>1) Abuse of power.<\/span><br \/><span>2) Breach of trust.<\/span><br \/><span>3) Abuse of pride.<\/span><br \/><span>4) Abuse of passivity.<\/span><br \/><span>5) Overfilling.<\/span><br \/><span>6) Sexual abuse.<\/span><br \/><span>7) Abuse of reason.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffbb00;\"><i class=\"fas fa-lightbulb\"><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_36 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">Figures that Speak<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The official figures that speak for themselves (WHO, UNICEF, etc.):<\/b><br \/><span>1) 1 in 5 people for\u00a0<\/span><b>birth stress.<\/b><br \/><span>2) 2 out of 3 people for\u00a0<\/span><b>the baby's emotional stress.<\/b><br \/><span>3) 2 out of 3 people for\u00a0<\/span><b>child abuse and shock.<\/b><br \/><span>4) 1 in 4 people for\u00a0<\/span><b>sexual abuse.<\/b><br \/><span>5) 1 in 5 people for\u00a0<\/span><b>emotional abandonment by parents.<\/b><br \/><span>6) 8 out of 10 people for <\/span><b>over-adaptation patterns.<\/b><br \/><span>7) 9 out of 10 people for <\/span><b>emotional illiteracy.<\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_37 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Happiness Experience Circuits<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The Circuits of Happiness Experience:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The memory circuit<\/b><span>\u00a0and experience.<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>The pleasure circuit<\/b><span>\u00a0and reward.<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>The pain circuit<\/b><span>\u00a0and punishment.<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>The good taste circuit<\/b><span>\u00a0and orientation.<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>The reaction circuit<\/b><span>\u00a0and movement.<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>The emotion circuit<\/b><span>\u00a0and attachment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts : <\/strong><span><\/span>The amygdala, hippocampus, insula, cingulate, neurovegetative, hemispheres and C.O.B. for the experts!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"et_pb_module et_pb_toggle et_pb_toggle_38 et_pb_toggle_item  et_pb_toggle_close\">\n<h5 class=\"et_pb_toggle_title\">The Happiness Experience Matrix<\/h5>\n<div class=\"et_pb_toggle_content clearfix\">\n<p><b>The Happiness Experience Matrix and the 3 Movements of Stress (Move Towards, Move Away, Switch Off)<\/b><span>. A new psychology of stress awareness in the memory-reaction development of the individual.<\/span><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Power to Feel Right \/ Honeymoon &amp; Fusion Connection Movement Experience<\/b><span>\u00a0(natural growth of the Feeling in pleasure, beginning of the couple, integration in the company, acceptance in the team...).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Power to Think Right \/ Differentiation Movement Experience with Clash &amp; Conflict<\/b><span>\u00a0(natural growth of Thinking in disagreement, assertion of opinions, preference of tastes, healthy questioning...).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Power to Do Right \/ Experience the Resourcing Movement with Step Back &amp; Practice<\/b><span>\u00a0(natural growth of Acting in action \/ relaxation, resting, recharging batteries and data, learning know-how...)<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Power to Remember Right \/ Experience of the Integration Movement with Echanges &amp; Parole<\/b><span> (natural growth of the Capacity to Remember in communication, in social exchanges, in communication skills...).<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- .et_pb_toggle_content --><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_tab][\/et_pb_tabs][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=\"1\u2033 disabled_on=\"on|on|on \" _builder_version=\"4.19.4\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" background_color=\"#f4f4f4\u2033 disabled=\"on \" locked=\"off \" collapsed=\"on \" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][et_pb_row disabled_on=\"off|off|off \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" custom_css_main_element=\"display: none; \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][et_pb_column type=\"4_4\u2033 _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][et_pb_accordion disabled_on=\"off|off|off \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][et_pb_accordion_item title=\"The Power of Vital Energy\" open=\"on \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" toggle_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 toggle_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \"]<\/p>\n<p><strong>The electrochemical sensorimotor energy of stress, made up of billions of microchemical connections and millions of microelectrical stimulations:<\/strong><br \/> 1) <strong>The power to feel good<\/strong> with electrochemical stimulation in the body (sensations, hormones,...).<br \/> 2) <strong>The power to think well<\/strong> with neuronal connections in the brain (neurotransmitters, synapses, etc.).<br \/> 3) <strong>The power to act well<\/strong> with nerve stimulation in the muscles (tension, neuro-vegetative system...).<br \/> 4) <strong>The power of good speech<\/strong> with social stimuli in exchanges (contact, signs of recognition, etc.).<\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B. for Experts<\/strong> The orchestration of these 4 powers constitutes the basic unit of sensorimotor memory-reaction mental experience. This memory-reaction orchestration takes place at several levels of organisation in our life structure and organisation.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=\"The Feeling Machine\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" toggle_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 toggle_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" open=\"off\"]The mechanics of The Feeling Machine:<br \/>\n1) The need signal: tension in the body, charge, alert by sensations.<br \/>\n2) Increased need: increased tension, risk of alarm with emotions.<br \/>\n3) Responding to the need: checking for bugs, adapting to the situation, solution limits, reaction control.<br \/>\n4) Signs of satisfaction: relaxation in the body, relief, well-being, feeling of success.<\/p>\n<p>N.B: 350 universal human needs at several levels of organisation (the needs of the body, the heart, the mind...)[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=\"The 4 times of feelings\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" toggle_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 toggle_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" open=\"off\"]<\/p>\n<p><strong>The 4 tenses of feelings<\/strong> :<br \/> 1) <strong>The tension<\/strong> in the body, the impulses and impressions of the moment (the stress movement).<br \/> 2) <strong>Feelings<\/strong>This is the result of a combination of the following factors: - the perception and stimulation of the moment (the contact of the 5 senses).<br \/> 3) <strong>Emotions<\/strong>reactions to opportunities and threats in the situation (the orientation of the 7 emotions).<br \/> 4) <strong>Feelings<\/strong>In other words, the way in which the story in question is interpreted over time and emotionally digested (the awareness of memory).<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=\"Meeting needs\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" toggle_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 toggle_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" open=\"off\"]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Meeting needs<\/strong> :<br \/> 1) <strong>Observe<\/strong> the situation (the reality of the tensions).<br \/> 2) <strong>Feel<\/strong> its needs (listening to the body).<br \/> 3) <strong>Check<\/strong> its reaction (the 7 emotional bugs).<br \/> 4) <strong>Think<\/strong> to the solutions (plans A, B or C).<br \/> 5) <strong>Act<\/strong> step by step (action times).<br \/> 6) <strong>Enjoy<\/strong> relief (the level of relaxation).<br \/> 7) <strong>Remembering<\/strong> experience (share value).<\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts<\/strong>Tension =&gt; Stimulation =&gt; Perception =&gt; Interpretation =&gt; Reaction =&gt; Satisfaction =&gt; Memorisation. Pleasure \/ reward circuit for memorisation + . Pain \/ punishment circuit for memorisation - . Insular cortex for the interpretation of common sense and good taste. Stress memory-reaction disorder when there is a reactionary short-circuit or an emotional \"bug\" in the system.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=\"The 5 Love Languages\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" toggle_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 toggle_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" open=\"off\"]<\/p>\n<p><strong>The 5 Love Languages for filling our Affective Reservoirs<\/strong> :<br \/> 1) <strong>Responsible support<\/strong> (real attention, active help, committed benevolence).<br \/> 2) <strong>Gestures of tenderness<\/strong> (warm touch, respectful hugs, hugs, cuddles).<br \/> 3) <strong>The moments of sharing<\/strong> and quality (laughter, games, complicity, intimacy, authenticity).<br \/> 4) <strong>Positive words<\/strong> and recognition (\"Yes\", \"Great\", \"Bravo\", \"I love you\", \"Sorry\", \"Thank you\").<br \/> 5) <strong>The gifts<\/strong> and festivals (sharing, celebration, gratification, ritual, reward).<\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts<\/strong>Several typologies for transactions, signs of gratification, signs of distinction and strokes in giving and receiving stimuli (Dr Eric Berne, Dr Henri Laborit, Claude Steiner, Pierre Bourdieu, etc.). Above is the well-known book by Gary Chapman.<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][\/et_pb_accordion][et_pb_accordion disabled_on=\"off|off|off \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][et_pb_accordion_item title= \"Les Racines du Mal-\u00eatre \" open=\"on \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" toggle_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 toggle_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \"]<\/p>\n<p><strong>The 4 stages of unhappiness<\/strong> :<br \/> 1) <strong>The 7 emotional wounds<\/strong> (lack, shock, abuse, neglect, emotional illiteracy...).<br \/> 2) <strong>Repression of emotions<\/strong> (freezing of stress, inhibition of action, justification to forget the pain).<br \/> 3) <strong>The psycho-corporal closure of the person<\/strong> (pain blocking, memory freezing, emotional defence, social masking).<br \/> 4) <strong>Stress-related memory and reaction disorders<\/strong> (emotional bugs, abusive compulsions, toxic ruminations, destructive impulses, somatic inflammations).<\/p>\n<p><strong>N.B &amp; Experts<\/strong> Dr Henri Laborit in 1979 for action inhibition (Albert Lasker Prize, WHO Medal). The American Psychiatric Association in 1980 for \"Stress Disorder\", a memory reaction to shock, lack and abuse (P.T.S.D).<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=\"The 7 Wounds of the Heart\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" toggle_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 toggle_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" open=\"off\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The 7 Wounds of the Heart:<\/b><br \/> <span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Respiratory stress at birth<\/b><span>\u00a0(lack of oxygen, cord, forceps, caesarean section...).<\/span><br \/> <span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Affective attachment stress<\/b><span>\u00a0(lack of oxytocin, early separation, breastfeeding, coldness...).<\/span><br \/> <span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Shock and violence stress<\/b><span>\u00a0(E.S.P.T, shouting, aggression, slapping, hands and feet, accidents, etc.).<\/span><br \/> <span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stress of abuse and humiliation<\/b><span>\u00a0(disgust for the insula, abuse of power, manipulation, seduction, sexual abuse, etc.).<\/span><br \/> <span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stress of neglect and failure<\/b><span>\u00a0(emotional abandonment, disorder, letting go, depression, dramatisation...).<\/span><br \/> <span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stress of over-adaptation and social conditioning<\/b><span>\u00a0(limiting beliefs, cognitive biases, toxic patterns, etc.).<\/span><br \/> <span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stress of ignorance and emotional illiteracy<\/b><span>\u00a0(denial of science, contempt for knowledge, refusal to understand...).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=\"The Lack &amp; Abuse Cycle\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" toggle_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 toggle_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" open=\"off\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The cycle of destructiveness \"Oh, M.A.M.A, Mia!<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Missing<\/b><span>\u00a0painful for healthy needs or lack of limits (emotional illiteracy, disregard for stress, denial of pain, etc.).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Abuse<\/b><span>\u00a0compensatory with toxic pleasure and abusive power (rebound effect, greed, vanity, cupidity, seduction, compulsion, etc.).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Contempt<\/b><span>\u00a0the realities of the heart and the social consequences (disgust, rejection, saturation, hatred, disgust...).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Moral abandonment<\/b><span>\u00a0of the mind (absence of shame, destructiveness, toxicity, \"I don't give a fuck\", etc.).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=\"Le Gel des Emotions \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" toggle_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 toggle_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" open=\"off\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Freezing emotions and the impact of pain :<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Dissociation of emotions \/ inflammation<\/b><span>\u00a0around pain (anaesthesia, cleavage, somatisation).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Rumination of emotions \/ procrastination<\/b><span>\u00a0around pain (anguish, helplessness, rage, despair, depression).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Reversal of emotions \/ dramatisation<\/b><span>\u00a0around pain (shame, guilt, sabotage, isolation, lack, abuse, perversion).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Abandonment of emotions\/agitation<\/b><span>\u00a0around pain (complacency, disregard, rejection, saturation, excess, burn-out, mania).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Obsession with emotions \/ compulsion<\/b><span>\u00a0(emotional dependence, sexual drive, food stress, addiction, seduction, abuse of power).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=\"The typology of injuries\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" toggle_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 toggle_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" open=\"off\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Types of injury :<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Severe shock<\/b><span>\u00a0or traumatic at once (accident, shock, physical shock, sexual abuse...).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Painful stimuli<\/b><span>\u00a0with repetition (humiliation, harassment, abuse of power, brainwashing...).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Sudden break-up<\/b><span>\u00a0contact in 1 go (abandonment, bereavement, disappearance, betrayal, \"radio silence\" in the relationship, etc.).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Lack of contact<\/b><span>\u00a0with repetition (neglect, deficiency, emotional \"hot-cold\", emotional \"yo-yo\", etc.).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Toxic saturation<\/b><span>\u00a0pleasure in 1 go (shocking excitement, bodily disgust, pathological \"ignition\", etc.).<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Untimely abuse<\/b><span>\u00a0pleasure with repetition (abusive arousal, toxic use, poisonous practice, early discovery, etc.).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[et_pb_accordion_item][\/et_pb_accordion][et_pb_accordion disabled_on=\"off|off|off \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][et_pb_accordion_item title=\"The 4 Brains of the Body\" open=\"on \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" toggle_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 toggle_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The 4 Human Brains:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Neurons in the head<\/b><span>\u00a0(with 2 hemispheres to organise our Movement in Space - Time).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Neurons in the belly<\/b><span>\u00a0(with the emotionally sensitive gut microbiota).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Neurons in the skin<\/b><span>\u00a0(with the fascias under tension with the pain).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Neurons in the heart<\/b><span>\u00a0(with 40,000 neurons, it seems...).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=\"The Spaces - Times of Happiness\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" toggle_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 toggle_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" open=\"off\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Information processing by the human brain in Space - Time :<\/b><br \/><span>1) The treatment of\u00a0<\/span><b>Place of things<\/b><span>\u00a0(the Heart in its attachment and structure).<\/span><br \/><span>2) The treatment of\u00a0<\/span><b>Time of things<\/b><span>\u00a0(Reason in its commitment and organisation)<\/span><br \/><span>3) The treatment of\u00a0<\/span><b>Movement of things<\/b><span>\u00a0(Life in its journey and evolution).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][et_pb_accordion_item title=\"The Brain in Pieces\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \" toggle_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 toggle_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" open=\"off\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The brain in 15 bite-sized chunks:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stress<\/b><span>\u00a0(the + or - illuminating electrical nerve voltage, in binary mode On \/ Off \/ Light).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>The reptilian<\/b><span>\u00a0(the body animal starter + or - reactive).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>The limbic<\/b><span>\u00a0(the more or less automatic emotional control depending on the experience integrated).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>The cortex<\/b><span>\u00a0(the decision centre + or - reflected according to the level of human integration).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>The neurovegetative nervous system<\/b><span>\u00a0(the machine to act by tension \/ relaxation).<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>The amygdala of the brain<\/b><span>\u00a0(the reactionary whistle-blower, the centre of immediate fear).<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>The nucleus accumbens<\/b><span>\u00a0(the centre of immediate pleasure).<\/span><br \/><span>8)\u00a0<\/span><b>The MFB<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Ventral tegmental area \/ Ventral pallidum (the reward circuit).<\/span><br \/><span>9)\u00a0<\/span><b>The PVS<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Hypothalamaus \/ thalamus \/ ventral pallidum (the punishment circuit).<\/span><br \/><span>10)\u00a0<\/span><b>The hippocampus<\/b><span>\u00a0(the memory of the experience + or - resource).<\/span><br \/><span>11)\u00a0<\/span><b>The cingulate cortex<\/b><span>\u00a0(the perception of emotion for the solution).<\/span><br \/><span>12)\u00a0<\/span><b>The insular cortex<\/b><span>\u00a0(the tasteful direction for the solution).<\/span><br \/><span>13)\u00a0<\/span><b>The prefrontal cortex<\/b><span>\u00a0(the common sense interpretation of the solution).<\/span><br \/><span>14)\u00a0<\/span><b>The C.O.F.<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The orbitofrontal cortex (the concentration over time for the solution).<\/span><br \/><span>15)\u00a0<\/span><b>P.T.S.D<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Stress Disorder (the memory-reaction disorder caused by inhibition of action).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_accordion_item][\/et_pb_accordion][et_pb_divider _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Strategy of Happiness\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The strategy of happiness (or S.W.O.T of the Heart)<\/b><br \/> <span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Going for the healthy opportunities<\/b><span>\u00a0(realistic situation, responsible person, fulfilling environment ...).<\/span><br \/> <span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Avoiding toxic threats<\/b><span>\u00a0(abusive person, false relationship, poisonous situation, endangerment...).<\/span><br \/> <span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Developing resources or strengths<\/b><span>\u00a0(positive experience, brain expertise, body energy, resources of money, information, technology, friends, etc.).<\/span><br \/> <span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Limiting shortcomings or weaknesses<\/b><span>\u00a0(cultivating health, contact, skills, talents, value creation, signs of distinction, etc.).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The 3 Stress Reactions\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The 3 natural stress strategies (or the 3 universal movements at the basis of all our reactions):<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Go to contact<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Movement towards the positive, reward or pleasure (<\/span><i>Move Towards Connection<\/i><span>).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Avoiding contact<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Movement to avoid negativity, punishment or pain (<\/span><i>Move Away From Connection<\/i><span>).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Switching off<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Strategic rest or downtime to boost strength, energy, sleep or resources (<\/span><i>Switch Off Connection<\/i><span>).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The 7 Emotions Orientation\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Emotions are reactions of orientation, adaptation and digestion in response to threats, opportunities and changes (danger, poison, loss, encounter, bereavement...). In what situation is your emotion normal and natural?<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Love<\/b><span>\u00a0is a normal and natural emotion when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>privacy<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>authenticity<\/b><span>\u00a0(orientation in the fruitfulness of the link).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Anger<\/b><span>\u00a0is normal and natural when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>injustice<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>lack<\/b><span>\u00a0(orientation in the satisfaction of needs).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Disgust<\/b><span>\u00a0is normal and natural when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>saturation<\/b><span>,\u00a0<\/span><b>toxicity<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>abuse<\/b><span>\u00a0(guidance on preventing poisoning).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Shame<\/b><span>\u00a0is normal and natural when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>inhumanity<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>abnormality<\/b><span>\u00a0(guidance in social integration).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>The joy<\/b><span>\u00a0is normal and natural when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>share<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>success<\/b><span>\u00a0(orientation in self-realisation within a filial framework).<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Fear<\/b><span>\u00a0is normal and natural when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>danger<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>unknown<\/b><span>\u00a0(risk management orientation).<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Sadness<\/b><span>\u00a0is normal and natural when there is\u00a0<\/span><b>loss<\/b><span>,\u00a0<\/span><b>separation<\/b><span>\u00a0or\u00a0<\/span><b>end<\/b><span>\u00a0(orientation in the subsidiary transition).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Good Choice Experience\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>7 key questions to help you reflect on your interpretations or challenges:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is it realistic to continue like this?<span>\u00a0<\/span><\/b><span>\/ Principle of factual reality.<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is it right to continue like this?<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Principle of sobriety for the body.<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is it right to continue like this?<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Principle of integrity for the mind.<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is it right to continue like this?<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Principle of dignity for the heart.<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is there any point in continuing this?<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Principle of price to pay, interest and profit over time (sense of history).<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is it fair to continue like this?<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Principle of law and order in Space (sense of place).<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Is it a shame to continue like this?<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Principle of value and meaning in Movement (meaning of action).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Keys to Normal Emotion\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Is an emotion normal and natural? Or is it an emotional bug?<\/b><br \/><span>1) Emotion is a reaction adapted to the situation \/ \/ \/.\u00a0<\/span><b>Normality in context.<\/b><br \/><span>2) The intensity of the emotion is normal for the situation.\u00a0<\/span><b>Proportionality in context.<\/b><br \/><span>3) Emotion is a source of empathy in the situation \/...\u00a0<\/span><b>Understanding in context.<\/b><br \/><span>4) The emotion doesn't ruminate in circles in the situation \/...\u00a0<\/span><b>Orientation in context.<\/b><br \/><span>5) Emotion is about respecting the people in the situation\/...\u00a0<\/span><b>Integrity in context.<\/b><br \/><span>6) Emotion is a source of relaxation and satisfaction in the situation \/...\u00a0<\/span><b>Relief in context.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_divider _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_toggle title=\"The 8 Emotional Bugs\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The 8 emotional bugs, 8 parasitic or abnormal reactions:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Disproportionate emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(abnormal intensity with \"elastic\" in memory).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Inappropriate emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(\"switch\" or emotional error, substitution due to lack of permission).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Accumulated emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(self-closure, passivity and stamp collecting).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Irrational emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(emotional control with rebound effect, panic or mania).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Contagious emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(Sponge Bob, emotion of others due to lack of boundaries or limits).<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Transferred emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(family secrets, hot potatoes, silence in the family system).<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Projected emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(desire or blame placed on others, role reversal, reversal of situation).<\/span><br \/><span>8)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stifled emotion<\/b><span>\u00a0(lack of emotion, wise appearance, logical coldness, slow seduction).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"Errors of interpretation\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Errors of interpretation, cognitive biases.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>A \/ The absence of awareness in the repression of emotions:<\/b><br \/> <span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The absence of emotion,<\/b><span>\u00a0emotional anaesthesia, sensory freezing (the cingulate).<\/span><br \/> <span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>No reaction,<\/b><span>\u00a0Sick passivity, behavioural freezing (neurovegetative).<\/span><br \/> <span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Lack of empathy,<\/b><span>\u00a0abuse of power, moral coldness (the islander).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>B \/ Errors of interpretation in the repression of emotions:<\/b><br \/> <span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The mystification of pleasure<\/b><span>\u00a0(compulsion, addiction, seduction, obsession, illusion...).<\/span><br \/> <span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Victimisation in pain<\/b><span>\u00a0(rumination, procrastination, depression, pity manipulation...).<\/span><br \/> <span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Guilt in pain<\/b><span>\u00a0(criticism, denigration, harassment, humiliation, etc.).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Dramatisation of Solutions\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Dramatisation of solutions, powerlessness in the face of problems:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Denial<\/b><span>\u00a0of the problem (or pain).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Minimisation<\/b><span>\u00a0of the problem (or pain).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stupid solutions<\/b><span>\u00a0to the problem (or pain).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Nervous agitation<\/b><span>\u00a0around the problem (or pain).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>The act of violence<\/b><span>\u00a0to get out of the problem (or pain) at all costs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Spiral of Beliefs\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The spiral loop of negative beliefs :<\/b><br \/> <span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Toxic beliefs with parasitic stress<\/b><span>A situation of failure or suppressed pain (problems of self-esteem, confidence, lack of success or sharing, over-adaptation, etc.).<\/span><br \/> <span>Example: \"I'm ashamed of myself, other people don't like me, I'm ugly\".<\/span><br \/> <span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Limiting behaviours due to emotional bugs<\/b><span>\u00a0(excessive fear, parasitic shame, abusive guilt, explosive anger, passive sadness, etc.).<\/span><br \/> <span>Example: \"I isolate myself, I avoid intimate contact, I'm afraid of how others will look at me\".<\/span><br \/> <span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Predictable consequences of the power of emotions and emotional illiteracy<\/b><span>\u00a0(intensity of bugs, social withdrawal, emotional isolation, emotional abandonment, relationship sabotage, etc.).<\/span><br \/> <span>Example: \"Other people don't come up to me in the evening. I don't smile or joke.<\/span><br \/> <span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Self-reinforcing confirmation with repeat pattern<\/b><span>\u00a0parasitic stress and failures (guilt, shame, humiliation, resignation, depression, despair, rage, hatred...).<\/span><br \/> <span>Example: \"Other people really don't like me, I'm not a good person. I've come full circle!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"Les R\u00e9p\u00e9titions Toxiques \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Toxic repetition, ineffective solutions:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Misunderstandings<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition of denial, contempt, lies, illusions, passivity...).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Parasite feelings<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition of emotional bugs, memory-reaction \"Stress Disorder\"...).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>False beliefs<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition of false interpretations, cognitive biases, toxic illusions, etc.).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Toxic patterns<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition of poisonous behaviour, power games, sabotage and failure, self-destruction...).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Repetition compulsion<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition in addiction, consumption, abuse, disgust, saturation, etc.).<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Life scenarios<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition of over-adaptations, sacrifices, sickly loyalties, toxic pities, abusive gratitudes...).<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Cognitive patterns<\/b><span>\u00a0(repetition of learning, experiences, emotional illiteracy, etc.).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_divider _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_toggle title= \"The Learning of Emotions\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The innate and acquired learning of emotions:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Basic autopilot<\/b><span>\u00a0with a universal brain structure (3 stresses, 7 emotional orientations).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Stimulation in our bodies<\/b><span>\u00a0to make our own experience of pleasure or pain.<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Passed on by our parents<\/b><span>\u00a0to alert us to a threat or opportunity (verbal and non-verbal triggering).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Experiences in life<\/b><span>\u00a0to discern between healthy and toxic situations, between real threats and false opportunities.<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Bugs in our interpretations, errors in our triggers<\/b><span>\u00a0emotional, false beliefs, memory-reaction disorder.<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>An improvement process<\/b><span>It's about questioning and experiencing new things (brain neuroplasticity, emotional literacy).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The 4 Levels of Consciousness\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The 4 levels of consciousness:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Perceptual position 1<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The perception of needs for oneself.<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>P.P 2<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The perception of the other's needs.<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>P.P 3<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The perception of needs in the specific situation.<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>P.P 4<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The perception of universal needs on Earth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Vital Function of Emotions\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The vital function of the 7 emotions (automatic steering of opportunities and threats):<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Love<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Optimising contact, exchanges and reproduction.<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Anger<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Preventing a lack, imbalance or abuse of power.<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Disgust<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Prevention against poison, abuse or saturation.<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Shame<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Preventing social exclusion, human desolation and inhumanity.<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>The joy<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Optimising self-fulfilment, individual success and social sharing.<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Fear<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Prevention against risk, danger or the unknown.<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Sadness<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Optimising change, bereavement, loss and transition.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_divider _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_toggle title=\"The 4 Levels of Trust\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The 4 Levels of Confidence:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Feeling good about yourself<\/b><span>\u00a0(internal security).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Have confidence in your ideas<\/b><span>\u00a0(the ability to think).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Being able to rely on its know-how<\/b><span>\u00a0(the ability to cope).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Knowing how to trust others<\/b><span>\u00a0(communication skills).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Recipe for Happiness\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The Recipe for Happiness:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The right sense of fun<\/b><span>\u00a0(well-being, joy, love, attachment...).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>The common sense of action<\/b><span>\u00a0(movement, project, activity, work, commitment...).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>A sense of value<\/b><span>\u00a0(the place of things, a sense of the sacred, talent, creativity...).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>The right sense of time<\/b><span>\u00a0(courage to act, prudence, patience, memory of childhood, etc.).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>The common sense of power<\/b><span>\u00a0(role of parents, sense of authority, choice of truth, taste for justice...).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Golden Transformation\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The Transformation into Gold (E=MC2).<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Listening to your energy<\/b><span>\u00a0(the weight of his pain, the light of his values).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Focusing your energy<\/b><span>\u00a0(the weight of his pain, the light of his values).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>The direction of its energy<\/b><span>\u00a0(the weight of his pain, the light of his values).<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>The transmission of its energy<\/b><span>\u00a0(the weight of his pain, the light of his values).<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>The expansion of its energy<\/b><span>\u00a0(the weight of his pain, the light of his values).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"Le Fair-Play du Coeur \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Fair Play from the Heart:<\/b><br \/><span>1) Fair play on the\u00a0<\/span><b>sexuality<\/b><span>.<\/span><br \/><span>2) Fair play on\u00a0<\/span><b>the money<\/b><span>.<\/span><br \/><span>3) Fair play on the\u00a0<\/span><b>violence<\/b><span>.<\/span><br \/><span>4) Fair play on the\u00a0<\/span><b>time<\/b><span>.<\/span><br \/><span>5) Fair play on\u00a0<\/span><b>living space<\/b><span>.<\/span><br \/><span>6) Fair play on the\u00a0<\/span><b>role of each<\/b><span>.<\/span><br \/><span>7) Fair play on the\u00a0<\/span><b>stress<\/b><span>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Verbs of Giving - Receiving \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The verbs of Giving &amp; Receiving to fill your Affective Body Reservoir :<\/b><br \/><span>1) See - Feel - Wait - Judge.<\/span><br \/><span>2) Accept - Refuse - Abstain.<\/span><br \/><span>3) Receiving - Giving - Sharing.<\/span><br \/><span>4) Listening - Asking - Talking.<\/span><br \/><span>5) Learn - Think - Dare - Act.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_divider _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_toggle title= \"Les Sch\u00e9mas Toxiques \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Messages of over-adaptation to stress in childhood (the \"Drivers\" of the \"Patterns\"):<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Be strong<\/b><span>Don't say anything!<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Please<\/b><span>be nice!<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Be perfect<\/b><span>Be good!<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Keep it clean<\/b><span>Be pure!<\/span><br \/><span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Make an effort<\/b><span>Don't think about yourself!<\/span><br \/><span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Hurry up<\/b><span>Don't take the time!<\/span><br \/><span>7)\u00a0<\/span><b>Be in disgust<\/b><span>I don't give a shit anymore!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Violence or Failure of Satisfaction\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The 4 feelings of violence or failure of happiness, in the satisfaction of our human needs :<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The feeling of powerlessness<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ We don't know what to do!<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Feelings of incomprehension<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ It's so confusing!<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>The feeling of impasse<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ We don't know how to get out of it!<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>The feeling of destructive legitimacy<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Nothing more to do, we enjoy it, we let go in this great \"Stress Disorder\"!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"Power Games &amp; Impotence \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Toxic power plays with stress because of our sickly powerlessness in the face of emotional pain:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The dominance of the Persecutor<\/b><span>\u00a0(abuse of power and direct control through pain, force, violence, over-stress, contempt, manipulation, etc.).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>The mystification of the Saviour<\/b><span>\u00a0(abuse of power and indirect control through pleasure, seduction, adoration, mothering, illusion, mystification, etc.).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Victimisation of the Victim<\/b><span>\u00a0(abuse of power and indirect control through pity, sacrifice, guilt, shame, taking charge, humiliation, etc.).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The 4 Actors of the Dramatic Triangle\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Les Acteurs du Triangle Dramatique (Stress Disorder, Drama Queen and Video Game).<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Persecutor wears the mask of Evil<\/b><span>\u00a0using the pain of his story. He has learned to do (some) bad things to get by (Bad Game Connected).<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Saviour wears the mask of goodness<\/b><span>\u00a0by avoiding the pain of his story. He has learned to do (some) good to get by (Dream Game Connected).<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Victim has the mask of the Poor<\/b><span>\u00a0ruminating on the pain of his story. He has learnt to show (pity) in order to get by (Pity Game Connected).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The 5 Challenges of the Dramatic Triangle\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<ul class=\"accordion accordion-2 switchable__text\">\n<li class=\"active\">\n<div class=\"accordion__content\">\n<p><b>The Issues of the Dramatic Triangle. The \"5 Rs\" to understand what we are playing with in our poisonous relationships:<\/b><br \/>1) The<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>R<\/b>The facts of the matter are clear.<br \/>2) The<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>R<\/b>The responsibility of individuals.<br \/>3) The<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>R<\/b>s role.<br \/>4) The<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>R<\/b>s response to the problem.<br \/>5) The<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>R<\/b>s response to traumatic memory.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_divider _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_toggle title=\"Animal, Child, Adult and Inner Parent\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Levels of brain organisation (simplified):<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Inner Animal<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The body's sense of action and sensations \/ \"Wake up the Tiger!<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Inner Child<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The heart's sense of need and emotion \/ \"Listen to the Child!<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Inner Adult<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ A sense of reality and the responsibilities of reason \/ \"Make the Adult work!<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>The Inner Parent<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ The meaning of solutions and values of consciousness \/ \"Educate the Parent!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>N.B :<\/b><span>\u00a0The neurovegetative, reptilian, limbic, anterior, frontal and insular cortexes for the experts!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"Electrical Power &amp; Descartes' Errors\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Past mistakes and denials about the Vital Energy of Stress:<\/b><br \/><span>1) The logical power of reason \/ The error of Descartes.<\/span><br \/><span>2) The erotic power of the drive \/ Freud's error.<\/span><br \/><span>3) The philosophical power of might \/ The error of Nietzsche.<\/span><br \/><span>4) The political power of disgust \/ Hitler's mistake.<\/span><br \/><span>5) The mystical power of the universe and of love \/ The error of Jung and Reich.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"type--fine-print\"><b>N.B :<\/b><span>\u00a0<\/span>In reality, it's a question of electro-chemical stimulation to be able to feel well, think well and act well, to \"feel good about yourself\" (Dr Henri LABORIT). At the same time, this story of stimulation is also called the nervous tension of stress, and it quickly becomes a sensitive subject in our families and societies if we start to connect the wires of memory properly (\"Shut up, Mr Tell!\", \"Silence, On Tour, Camera!\").<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"Experience &amp; Relationship Matrix\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Experience Matrix &amp; Happiness Connection:<\/b><br \/><span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Power to Feel Right \/ Move Towards Connection<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Experience of Feeling in the bond \/ Bonding in pleasure, fusion in the relationship, the \"Yes!<\/span><br \/><span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Power to Think Right \/ Move Away From Connection<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Experience of Thinking in differentiation \/ Disagreement in tension, conflict with others, period of \"No!<\/span><br \/><span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Power to Do Right \/ Switch Off Connection<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Experience of taking action in preparation \/ Resourcing, rest, withdrawal, \"do it yourself\" period.<\/span><br \/><span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Power to Talk About It \/ Interaction<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ Experience of interaction in speech \/ Back to exchange, a period of learning to live together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_divider _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Dimensions of the Heart\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The Dimensions of the Heart:<\/b><br \/><span>1) The meaning of\u00a0<\/span><b>reality<\/b><span>\u00a0of the facts.<\/span><br \/><span>2) The meaning of\u00a0<\/span><b>the story<\/b><span>\u00a0personal.<\/span><br \/><span>3) The meaning of\u00a0<\/span><b>sobriety<\/b><span>\u00a0body.<\/span><br \/><span>4) The meaning of\u00a0<\/span><b>integrity<\/b><span>\u00a0mental.<\/span><br \/><span>5) The meaning of\u00a0<\/span><b>dignity<\/b><span>\u00a0human.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The 5 Stages of Emotional Digestion\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The 5 stages of the emotional digestion of pain:<\/b><br \/><span>1) Awareness of pain (the end of denial).<\/span><br \/><span>2) Healthy anger to release pain.<\/span><br \/><span>3) Fear of change.<\/span><br \/><span>4) Sadness to get rid of grief.<\/span><br \/><span>5) Acceptance that it's all over!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"type--fine-print\"><b>N.B:<\/b><span>\u00a0<\/span><i>\"5 Stages of Grief<\/i><span>\u00a0<\/span>for the experts!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"Emotional Intelligence \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The development of emotional intelligence (in the management of our stress, our needs, our emotions and our relationships):<\/b><br \/><span>1) Sensory anaesthesia.<\/span><br \/><span>2) Sensory perception.<\/span><br \/><span>3) Emotional interference.<\/span><br \/><span>4) Individual management.<\/span><br \/><span>5) Emotional interaction.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Transmission of the Word\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p class=\"lead\"><b>The Transmission of the Word:<\/b><br \/> <span>1) A genuine commitment to humanist values.<\/span><br \/> <span>2) Genuine commitment to our children.<\/span><br \/> <span>3) Real change for our families.<\/span><br \/> <span>4) Genuine recognition of stress.<\/span><br \/> <span>5) Genuine acceptance of memory.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The 5 Languages of Forgiveness\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The 5 Languages of Forgiveness:<\/b><br \/><span>1) Really acknowledge the fault.<\/span><br \/><span>2) Expressing real regret.<\/span><br \/><span>3) Really want to change.<\/span><br \/><span>4) Really propose a repair.<\/span><br \/><span>5) Really ask for forgiveness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_divider _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Commandments of the Law of Silence\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The Commandments of the Law of Silence :<\/b><br \/><span>1) Denial of pain, one is asked to keep quiet.<\/span><br \/><span>2) The cream pie: you're expected to have a great childhood.<\/span><br \/><span>3) Disregard for memory: we are asked to forget.<\/span><br \/><span>4) The ban on anger, we are asked to forgive.<\/span><br \/><span>5) Emotional illiteracy: we are asked to remain powerless over our emotions.<\/span><br \/><span>6) The social mask: we are asked to be good, kind, beautiful and smiling.<\/span><br \/><span>7) Toxic guilt: we're told to believe \"it's my fault\".<\/span><br \/><span>8) The logical excuse: \"It's for your own good\".<\/span><br \/><span>9) The good economic excuse: \"It's all about the money\".<\/span><br \/><span>10) Shame if you talk about it, you are asked to hide.<\/span><br \/><span>11) Mercy and kindness of heart, one is asked to sacrifice.<\/span><br \/><span>12) If you talk about punishment, you'll get a double penalty.<\/span><br \/><span>13) Passive magical thinking: we are asked to believe \"If I say nothing, nothing happens, everything's fine\".<\/span><br \/><span>14) Toxic loyalty, one is asked to remain loyal to sick, passive and abusive people.<\/span><br \/><span>15) Brainwashing, we are asked to believe in Snow White and Father Christmas.<\/span><br \/><span>16) The power of taboos, we are asked to avoid the roots of evil, My Child!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Consents of the Word\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The 4 Consents of the Man of the Word:<\/b><br \/><span>1) The pain of his past.<\/span><br \/><span>2) The reality of its present.<\/span><br \/><span>3) The energy of the future.<\/span><br \/><span>4) The truth of its history.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The 8 Body Locks\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The pain points where stress tensions freeze:<\/b><br \/> 1) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>the eyes.<\/b><br \/> 2) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>the jaws.<\/b><br \/> 3) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>the neck.<\/b><br \/> 4) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>chest - shoulders.<\/b><br \/> 5) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>the diaphragm.<\/b><br \/> 6) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>stomach - digestive system.<\/b><br \/> 7) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>pelvis - anus - sex.<\/b><br \/> 8) Tension \/ pain in<span>\u00a0<\/span><b>legs - knees - feet<\/b><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Dragons of Emotion \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Emotional dragons in their mismanagement (emotional bugs, parasitic pain):<\/b><br \/> <span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>Compulsion abuse<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ addiction \/ obsession.<\/span><br \/> <span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>Abuse of seduction<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ illusion \/ vanity \/ manipulation.<\/span><br \/> <span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>Abuse of agitation<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ rumination \/ impulse \/ drive.<\/span><br \/> <span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>Abuse of victimisation<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ rumination \/ procrastination \/ humiliation.<\/span><br \/> <span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>Abuse of violence<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ acting out \/ destructive rage.<\/span><br \/> <span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>Shame abuse<\/b><span>\u00a0\/ contempt \/ lies \/ rejection \/ pride.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>N.B:<\/b>\u00a0Stress with Memory Reaction Disorder \/ Lack, shock, pain, abuse, saturation, rejection, disgust, hatred, rage...(Stress Disorder, P.T.S.D).<\/p>\n<p class=\"lead\">[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The 7 Dimensions of Abuse\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The 7 dimensions of abuse:<\/b><br \/><span>1) Abuse of power.<\/span><br \/><span>2) Breach of trust.<\/span><br \/><span>3) Abuse of pride.<\/span><br \/><span>4) Abuse of passivity.<\/span><br \/><span>5) Overfilling.<\/span><br \/><span>6) Sexual abuse.<\/span><br \/><span>7) Abuse of reason.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_divider _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" global_colors_info=\"{} \"][\/et_pb_divider][et_pb_toggle title= \"Des Chiffres qui Parlent \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>Official figures that speak for themselves (WHO, UNICEF, etc.):<\/b><br \/><span>1) 1 in 5 people for\u00a0<\/span><b>birth stress.<\/b><br \/><span>2) 2 out of 3 people for\u00a0<\/span><b>the baby's emotional stress.<\/b><br \/><span>3) 2 out of 3 people for\u00a0<\/span><b>child abuse and shock.<\/b><br \/><span>4) 1 in 4 people for\u00a0<\/span><b>sexual abuse.<\/b><br \/><span>5) 1 in 5 people for\u00a0<\/span><b>emotional abandonment by parents.<\/b><br \/><span>6) 8 out of 10 for\u00a0<\/span><b>over-adaptation patterns.<\/b><br \/><span>7) 9 out of 10 for\u00a0<\/span><b>emotional illiteracy.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"The Circuits of Happiness Experience\" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The Circuits of Happiness Experience :<\/b><br \/> <span>1)\u00a0<\/span><b>The memory circuit<\/b><span>\u00a0and experience.<\/span><br \/> <span>2)\u00a0<\/span><b>The pleasure circuit<\/b><span>\u00a0and reward.<\/span><br \/> <span>3)\u00a0<\/span><b>The pain circuit<\/b><span>\u00a0and punishment.<\/span><br \/> <span>4)\u00a0<\/span><b>The good taste circuit<\/b><span>\u00a0and orientation.<\/span><br \/> <span>5)\u00a0<\/span><b>The reaction circuit<\/b><span>\u00a0and movement.<\/span><br \/> <span>6)\u00a0<\/span><b>The emotion circuit<\/b><span>\u00a0and attachment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>N.B:<\/b><span>\u00a0<\/span>The amygdala, the hippocampus, the insula, the cingulate, the neurovegetative, the hemispheres and the C.O.B. for the experts!<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_toggle][et_pb_toggle title=\"Experience Matrix &amp; Personal Development \" _builder_version=\"4.16\u2033 _module_preset=\"default \" title_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 title_font=\"DM Sans|700||||||| \" body_font=\"DM Sans|||||||| \" body_text_color=\"#000000\u2033 global_colors_info=\"{} \"]<\/p>\n<p><b>The Happiness Experience Matrix and the 3 Movements of Stress (Move Towards, Move Away, Switch Off)<\/b><span>. 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